Our girl has decided to move with us senior year--reward?

hmm... maybe something that will help her adjust to your new location, i know this is a lot (esp. since your hub just lost his job) but maybe a car? certified pre owned aren't too expensive and it will give her an opportunity to explore the new location and when she makes new friends freedom to roam... if she already has one, maybe have a surprise going away party for her and invite all her closest friends, and make her a scrapbook (get help from her friends and have them bring old pictures from middle school and elementary) that would probably mean a lot to her and it would be good for both of you, she'd probably appreciate it.